Sexualness? Sexuality? What do you mean?
When you have clarity about what sex (and especially its energy) is, you don't have to hold it off either. What's more, it gives you choice in what you want to receive. You'll also discover how to excite or turn on a body or your body and not just your body - What if life was an orgasmic experience?
In fact, the energy of sex is about receiving, exploring and enjoying your body, your life, living life and basically everything. Knowing that, would you allow more sex into your life?